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What Is The Grown-Ass Woman Experience All About and What's In It For You?

The truth is...

Until you take the time to deal with and heal from your unresolved relationship issues, you will continue to attract the wrong one into you life. It won't happen overnight, but if you put in the work, you can change the course of your life!!!

You have been taken advantage of for far too long.

IT'S TIME...

It's time for you to learn how to love and honor the truth of who YOU are and what YOU really need. And then learn how to ATTRACT it into your life!

You are waaaayyy to smart to be with someone that requires you to "dumb down" your greatness.

You are far too resourceful to be with someone that cannot hold their own.

You are far too loving to waste that love on someone that can't give the same level of love back to you.

You are far too giving to get stuck with someone that is incapable of returning your gestures.

You are far to driven, motivated and determined to end up with someone that is going to make you feel guilty for your hustle.

If you're wondering if I could possibly understand what you're going through...keep reading.

For My Single Sistahs...

  • Are you tired of secretly crying yourself to sleep at night?

  • Do you feel like you have to "dumb down" in order to have a long lasting relationship?

  • Do you belong to family of perpetually single women?

  • Do you think it's too late for you to find love?

  • Are you struggling with opening up your heart to love again after years of disappointment?

  • Are you worn down by heartbreak?

  • Are you beating yourself up because you still want your ex, even though he has moved on?

  • Do you want to learn what goes on in the minds of men so you can avoid the "knuckleheads" all together?

I'm IN!

For My Committed Sistahs...

  • Are your questioning whether or not you made the right choice?

  • Are you wondering whether you should stay or go?

  • Do you feel valued, honored, cherished, heard and adored?

  • Want to learn how to bring back that look in his eye that he had in the beginning?

  • Trying to determine HOW you completely lost yourself in your relationship and how to get back...to you?

  • Want him to WANT to do things without you nagging him?

  • Are you now beating yourself up wondering how you ended up with someone like him?

Just What I Need

For My High-Achieving Sistahs...

  • Do you spend more time working on your business than you do on your love life?

  • Are you tired of choosing the wrong guy, over and over again?

  • Does the idea of dating again make you break out in hives?

  • Are you tired of showing up to family events alone?

  • Are you tired of being taken advantage of?

  • Do you overreact at the slightest thought of someone trying to get over on you?

  • Have you forgotten what is was like to be truly LOVED?

  • Is it possible that you could be leaning on your children for the emotional support a partner would bring?

 

Yes, this is me. Sign me up!

Stop Dating the Same Person In Different Clothing!

It's time for you to heal your heart, learn how to build healthy AUTHENTIC relationships and even mend your marriage...but it all starts with YOU!

What if I could show you...

  • How to date and be happily married the Grown-Ass Woman way?

  • How to magnify your intimate connections by stepping into your truth

  • How to understand the spirit of a man and speak directly to his heart?

  • How to be just as powerful in the bedroom as you are in the boardroom?

  • How to get a man to really SEE you and love you for who you REALLY are?

  • How to begin to heal your heart so that you could make room for the love you've always wanted?

  • A proven system that will help bring awareness and healing to the fractured parts of your heart and soul?

  • How to be the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up and the last thing he thinks about before he goes to bed?

  • The exact spiritual and practical tools that I use to keep my heart open and keep my marriage strong?

  • One simple, almost unfair advantage that women have that they rarely ever use?

Is it really possible that YOU could be the reason why you have not received what you wanted and you just haven't realized it? ABSOLUTELY! 

Maybe...

Instead of dealing with your past pain, you purchase another purse, trip, car, outfit, to make you feel better because it's easier and less painful to do.

When meeting a new dating prospect, you dump all of your garbage on the table thinking that "keeping it real" is the best thing for both of you.

You go from one relationship to the next without honestly doing the mental, emotional, spiritual, energetic and even financial work necessary.

You don't realize that you are attracting at the level of your emotional and spiritual evolution, so you keep making the same mistakes.

You have no idea WHO you are or what it is that you REALLY need because you have been in survival mode this whole time.

You lead with your pain and then wonder why even though you told them what you needed in the beginning, they never seem willing (or able) to give it to you.

WOW, That's Me!

OUCH! That didn't feel too good, did it?

Now that you have seen how not dealing with your past residual relationship energy can infiltrate your present, what should you do?

Is there anything that you CAN do?

I'm so glad you asked that question, YES THERE IS!!!

You can literally shift the trajectory of your current and any future relationships creating the quality of love that you want.

Really?!?!? REALLY!

Imagine having that type of feminine energy!!!

 

Commit to healing your heart, reconnecting with your spirit, become confortable in your own skin and increase your confidence while learning how to become irresitible!

Taking this time to go within will not only improve your intimate relationships but will also have a transformational affect on ALL other relationships as well!

If YOU won't commit to loving on you how can you ever expect that someone else will?

I'm Ready to Commit To ME!

And Here is Where I Come In...

Hi there beautiful!

I am Anita Charlot, Dating, Relationship and Marriage Coach to Grown-Ass Women...just like you!

I didn't just pop up overnight, I have been in the business of relationships since 1999!

I am also the CEO and Chief Relationship Officer of the Relationship Architect Academy, LLC - the first online Dating, Relationship and Marriage School dedicated to teaching women how to attract and maintain authentic relationships, the Grown-Ass woman way and the author of the Amazon Best Seller, The 5 Phases of Dating - The Grown-Ass Woman's Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships.

I wasn't always lucky in love. I have been cheated onlied to, thoroughly confused and I've had my heart broken to the point of no return. And as a domestic abuse survivor; I know what it's like to have to pick up the pieces of my life after being emotionally devastated and having to find the courage to leave that marriage with my two young sons in tow.

Trust me when I tell you that I have searched high and low for love, all types of people, social statuses, education levels, financial positions, etc. Only to find myself alone again. If you've read my book, then you are familiar with my story. 

 

Let's Do This Coach Anita

"I ALWAYS flap my lips to people on how you helped me, ALWAYS grateful to you more than you know!"

Kelly S.
Social Worker

And THEN, I even resolved within my spirit that I was not meant to have romantic LOVE in my life; that my role was to be there for other women and help them find the love they wanted by sharing all of the pain that I had experienced.

Any of this sound familiar? Sis, that was my fear, my pain and my disappointment talking. Thank goodness I didn't listen.

Instead of sulking and being a broken woman, I went on a healing tour. I sought out a variety of licensed therapist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrists, LCSW's, ministers, etc. I wanted to feel whole again and finally heal my heart. It wasn't until I was introduced to a Metaphysician that it clicked for me.

Intuitively, she was able to connect the dots and take me on a healing journey from my head to my heart by helping me get clear on the spirit of who I was; helping me grow through my past pain (and anger) and by giving me the practical and spiritual tools that I still use for myself as well as my clients today. It was because of her that I decided to get my Bachelors in Metaphysics.

Working with her CHANGED MY LIFE! She was able to help me see things that I could not see. In Essence, she was a mirror to my shadow self shining a reflection into my spirit like no one else could have. The things she helped me see, even while I was kicking and screaming, were not things I wanted to believe about myself, but they were the truth! And what do they say...the truth shall set you free! And that it did!

Because of my work with her, I went on to continue to do the emotional, mental and spiritual work I needed.

Having my own coach and doing and growing through the HARD work myself is why I'm able to help you do the following..

  • Gain clarity on what you REALLY want.
  • Identify the ways in which you have been standing in your own way.
  • Help you heal your heart
  • Attract and maintain healthy relationships
  • Mend your marriage
  • Increase your confidence
  • Bring your sexy back
  • Learn to love your body again
  • Understand the energy of men
  • Find your voice
  • Learn how to trust...YOURSELF again
  • And so much more!!!

But now it's your turn!

I've been in the business of love and relationships for over 20 years.

I have healed the hearts, attracted and maintained authentic relationship and mended marriages for single, "situational," married, divorced, widowed, poly, lesbian and bisexual women, and even a few smart men based on the quality of love based on what they REALLY wanted.

I have now combined what I've learned over the past 20 years into the most TRANSFORMATIONAL EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL AND ENERGETIC COURSE IN AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIPS for GROWN-ASS WOMEN!

THIS IS THE PROGRAM YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!!

 

"I'm not sure that I could have handled hearing my truth from anyone else other than you Coach; you gave it to me straight and helped me to stop playing the victim. I now know what I DID in my past relationships and I am currently attracting better experiences. Thank you!"

Bianca C.
Nursing Student

A woman that is aware of and "growing through" her past relationship experiences will always attract a different quality of of love into her life. 

She's confident, comfortable in her own skin, able to be vulnerable without fear of judgement, has found her voice and knows when and how to use it effectively, has reconnected with her spirit, knows how to identify the one that is perfectly imperfect for her, has a spiritual and practical practice that keeps her grounded and never has to dim her light in order to have a relationship.

If this isn't you, then you needed this program YEARS ago!

Why would you continue to settle for whatever he feels like throwing your way?

THIS IS THE SIGN YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!

THE TIME IS NOW!

WILL YOU INVEST IN YOUR HEART?

WILL YOU STOP BLOCKING YOUR OWN POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE?

WILL YOU STOP SETTLING FOR RIGHT NOW AND BEGIN TO PREPARE FOR HAPPY EVER AFTER?

WILL YOU BECOME THE WOMAN YOU'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE?

One decision could change...everything!

Finally! A program that offers TOTAL TRANSFORMATION! Spiritual, Emotional, Physical and Energetic Healing! I will be there to hold a safe space for you while you focus on healing every step of the way.

AN INSIDE VIEW INTO WHAT'S TO COME...

  • Clarity on the spirit of the person that is perfectly imperfect for you so that you know it when you see it.

  • Spiritual and Practical exercise that you will have in your "toolkit" to use during and long after the program is over.

  • Healing from mental, emotional and energetic trauma.

  • Grow right alongside of other women who will by the end of the program will have become like family to you.

  • Knowledge of how to date like a Grown-Ass Woman.

  • Permission to let your light shine as you attract the quality of love that you've always wanted.

  • Understand the energy and spirit of men so that you can stop doing "that thing" that irritates the heck out of him.

  • Have the "right ones" lining up to meet you.

  • Watch in awe as your significant other gets inspired to change right before your eyes.

  • Celebrate your completion with an optional "Grown-Ass Woman Weekend" somewhere tropical.

OR, NOT...

You don't have to sign up at all!

You could remain in that viscous cycle of dating the wrong one for all the right reasons.

Keep complaining that he is not the man you want him to be.
Expecting him to change in order to make you feel better about yourself or the relationship.
Keep playing the victim.
Continue feeling lonely - even IN your relationship.
Continue crying yourself to sleep at night.
Stay perpetually single. 
Stay in an unhappy marriage.
Continue attracting abusers.

It's a No-Brainer to me having lived those lives before, but just in case you need to know what you would be getting yourself into...here is the course curriculum:

Seven Months. Two Terms. Dating, Relationship and Marriage Healing like you've never had before!

I've Read Enough, I'm IN!

Read what OTHER Grown-Ass Women Had to Say About Working With Anita

The Grown-Ass Woman Experience is a

LIVE Transformational Program!

If you've ever taken my Keeping It Sexy Challenge, then you know this transformational program will not be easy.

There is no way you could take the information, apply it, grow through it and support yourself...all by yourself. You need support, guidance, direction, suggestion and healing and that is what I'm here to do for you.

We will meet every week; 2 weeks of lecture and 2 weeks of group coaching per month throughout the program. 

This is not your typical course as it is guaranteed to push your buttons, kick you out of your comfort zone yet...it will be one of the most rewarding EXPERIENCES you've ever had.

All LIVES and Group Coaching sessions are recorded; so if you are unavailable to make it, I got you. The goal is to watch the replay, keep doing the work and keep transforming.

I've been doing this work for over 20 years, it's not easy ...

but it's SO worth it.

Now get in here can love you and support you through this experience!!!

What are you waiting for?

Just for making the Grown-Ass Woman decision to step UP your love game, I am throwing in a few bonuses... 

#1 - Private Facebook Group

This alone was the best part about my last coaching experience. The women and I that were in training together are still connected to this day...it's like, we became family; out own support community. This is what I plan for you as well.

(TOTAL VALUE: $1000)

#2 Group Coaching Calls

Every month you will have two group coaching calls. On these calls you have the ability to ask me any question about your homework, your experiences, your feelings, your dreams, additional suggestions, etc. It's like your very own support group with a group of women on the same mission as you. This work is not easy and it helps to have your group coaching call in between the LIVES!

(Total Value: $9800)

#3 Guest Experts

Am I my sistah's keeper, YES I AM! That's why I am opening up my personal directory of spiritual coaches, prayer warriors, male coaches, intimacy coaches, etc. to help make this a total transformational experience for you. Every month you will have a guest coach come in and share their expertise.

(Total Value: $2000)

I SURE HOPE YOU'RE READY FOR THIS ONE?!?!!?

You will have the opportunity to join Anita and the Grown-Ass Women you have come to know and love for a weekend of Grown-Ass Activities!!! Consider it a graduation trip...for Grown women!
(travel and accommodations not included)

THE BONUSES ARE WORTH OVER $12,000?!?!!?

WAIT...WHAT!?!?!

Enroll Today and Get...

The Grown-Ass Woman Experience LIVE Lectures ~ The Entire Experience
($10,000 Value)

Workbooks, done for you worksheets, checklists, field trip assignments + recordings of all LIVE lectures and calls
($5000 Value) 

Weekly Office Hours
($9800 Value)

Access to the GAWE Community on Facebook
($1000)

Grown-Ass Woman Weekend Experience
($1200 Value)

AND this doesn't even include the long-term transformation, increase in confidence, becoming comfortable in your own skin, the peace of mind in knowing that you don't have to be less...in order to have MORE love in your life and the skills and no-how to attract that perfectly imperfect person for you!

You will also have LIFETIME ACCESS to the course including all updates and....

The opportunity to sit on the panel for the next Grown-Ass Woman Weekend Experience as one of the Founding Sistah's where you will get to share the awareness and transformation that took place in YOUR life as you welcome your new Sistah's into the fold!

If this sounds like something that would be of interest to you, you will want to secure your spot fast.

This is a program that requires me to hold the "space for you" and cover you energetically and spiritually, as a result, I can only hold the space for 5 amazing Grown-Ass Women that are READY to take decisive action and do the hard work to transform.

If you are truly ready to face yourSELF in order to have long-lasting transformation in your relationships...

Then I'm standing here with my arms wide open...

waiting for you!

THE BEST TOTAL MIND, BODY, SPIRIT, ENERGY, EMOTION AND INTIMACY TRANSFORMATIONAL PROGRAM CHOICE YOU CAN MAKE!

**Please note that this is BETA pricing as it is the first time I have offered this program. The next time I run this program, it will be significantly higher.

PAY IN FULL

$4000

PER MONTH

I'M READY TO UP MY LOVE GAME!

INSTALLMENT PLAN

$400

PER MONTH for 10 Months

I'M READY TO UP MY LOVE GAME!

Don't you hate it when the infomercial announcer says...

I PROMISE YOU WILL APPRECIATE IT THIS TIME!!!!

OK, Let's review EVERYTHING that is included!

It's time you attracted or RE-programmed the type of relationship you've always wanted to have!!!

HUNNNAAAYYYY!!!!! THIS IS BY FAR...THE BEST TOTAL MIND, BODY, SPIRIT, ENERGY, EMOTION AND INTIMACY TRANSFORMATIONAL PROGRAM CHOICE YOU CAN MAKE!

And I can ONLY TAKE 6 WOMEN!!! **Please note that this is BETA pricing as it is the first time I have offered this program. The next time I run this program, it will be significantly higher.

PAY IN FULL

$4000

PER MONTH

I'M READY TO UP MY LOVE GAME!

INSTALLMENT PLAN

$400

PER MONTH for 10 Months

I'M READY TO UP MY LOVE GAME!
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