LGBTQ Premarital Coaching Program Options
Almost time to say I DO? You are taking the right step in seeking Premarital Coaching. Most LGBTQ couples will invest more money ON the wedding ceremony than they are willing to invest in preparing FOR the marriage.
Planning for a life together can be exciting and terrifying at the same time. Those feelings of insecurities, trust issues, ex-girlfriends/boyfriends/wives/husbands residual energy and fear of commitment that we didn't allow ourselves to feel during the dating and engagement phase often creep up and sting like heck if not addressed before you say I do. That's why I believe premarital coaching is so important.
Why work with a dating and relationship coach? To take time to work through any open-ended issues, questions or reservations that you may have before walking down the aisle. The challenge is choosing the RIGHT coach to work with. Think about it...why would you work with a coach that has yet to have a successful relationship, let alone a successful marriage? What you want is to work with a coach that can speak to you from the experience of a failed marriage to that can teach you what to look out for, how to bypass or overcome those things and the joys and instructions of living a happy and healthy married life.
Working with a coach provides you with the opportunity to avoid stepping over the important and possibly well-buried needs, feelings and fears of you and your fiance so that you do not find yourself getting a divorce months later. Marriage is a big deal, it shouldn't be viewed in the same way as before - packing all of your things from your apartment in a U-Haul and moving in with your lover, it will stretch, push, bend, disappoint and have you second-guessing why you made the decision to get married in the first place so you want to be prepared.
The longer you work with me, the more greater your success rate. During our time together, we role play, have the hard discussions, healing and forgiveness takes place (of yourself and others) and you learn how to avoid the pitfalls in the beginning which will set you up for greater success as you continue to build your life together. You want to be sure (as sure as you can be) that you are making the right decision for all the right reasons and THAT is what you will walk away with along with your toolbox full of long-lasting marriage strategies.
I'm not only a Dating and Relationship Coach that has been in the business of Healing Hearts, Building Relationships and Mending Marriages since 1999. I am also a woman that has failed in love, many times and a domestic abuse survivor who understands all too well the importance of having the right conversations and choosing the right spouse, the first time and I am here to help you do the same.
