Why am I smiling so much in this picture?

Because I wasn't always lucky in love. I have been cheated on, lied to, thoroughly confused and I've had my heart broken to the point of no return.

I am also a domestic abuse survivor; having to pick up the pieces of my life after finding the courage to leave that marriage with my two young sons in tow.

I have searched high and low for love, all types of people, social statuses, education levels, financial positions, etc. Only to find myself alone again. If you've read my book, The 5 Phases of Dating - The Grown-Ass Woman's Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships, then you are familiar with my story.

And THEN, I even resolved within my spirit that I was not meant to have romantic LOVE in my life; that my role was to be there for other women and help them find the love they wanted by sharing all of the pain that I had experienced.

Any of this sound familiar? Sis, that was my fear, my pain and my disappointment talking. Thank goodness I didn't listen.

Instead of sulking and being a broken woman, I went on a healing tour. I sought out a variety of licensed therapist, psychoanalyst, psychiatrists, LCSW's, ministers, etc. I wanted to feel whole again and finally heal my heart. It wasn't until I was introduced to a Metaphysician that it clicked for me. 

She was able to connect the dots from my head to my heart by helping me get clear on the spirit of who I was; by helping me grow through my past pain (and anger) and by giving me the practical and spiritual tools that I still use today.

Because of my work with her, I went on to continue to do the emotional, mental and spiritual work on me so that I could be the coach that women (and a few smart men) like me needed. In my business I combine over 25 years of training/study of Metaphysics, Spiritual concepts and exercises as well as NLP techniques to bring about the healing that my clients so desperately need.

I'm smiling because...over the past 20 years I've healed hundreds of hearts, built hundreds of relationships and mended several marriages. Not only that but I've even attracted, maintained and married the love of my life. And I can help you do the same...IF you're ready for a mind, body and spirit mind shift.

All it takes is a willingness to be coached, an openness to try new things, the ability to be honest with me but most importantly yourself.

If you're not ready to face your truth, to be pushed when you're falling back on your old train of thought or would prefer to invest in trips, clothing, shoes vs. your emotional evolution, then I'm not the coach for you.

But if you're tired of being alone, crying yourself to sleep at night, watching others around you being happy and consistently getting your heart broken...sign up for one of the personalized coaching programs below.

To Your Dating and Relationship Success!!!

Your coach,

Anita Charlot

Coaching Programs

60 Minute Session

If you've never worked with me before, I can understand why you wouldn't want to immediately sign up for a long-term program?

Then start here. Whether you decide to work with me long-term or not, you will walk away with the tools and a few self-reflection homework assignments that you can use immediately to help you being to grow through whatever you're dealing with at that time.

Should you decide to continue working with me, your investment will be applied to your next program. 

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90-Minute Session

Maybe you need a little more than 60-Minutes; then you want to sign-up for the 90-minute program.

You will receive the same benefit as the 60-minute session.

Should you decide to continue working with me, your investment will be applied to your next coaching program.

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Ready to start attracting from a healthy place vs. a place of desperation?

Trust me, One on One sessions for the 60/90 Minute time slots is a great start, but it will not bring about the Spirit of Attraction that you want.

Whether you are single, in a relationship/situationship or marriage...working with me for a longer amount of time is LIFE CHANGING experience. During the 6 and 12 week programs, you have so much more time to receive the support that you need as well as the opportunity to reprogram your faulty beliefs around dating and relationships.

You also have 24 hour email/text access to me throughout our time together. This is helpful in getting you through the "rough patches" and helping to clarify any homework assignments that you are given week to week. I'm there with you every step of the way Sis...in these programs, we get to spend more time together. Either here in my home office or over video; whatever is most convenient for you.


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